Breaking the codes of society is like swimming up a river, against the current of contemporary values. It can be done if it is the deepest desire of your heart, but it makes life more difficult - exhausted - and it has consequences ... Like stirring up the beliefs and emotions of others who take those beliefs very seriously.
Following the standards of your society and avoiding what is not considered ethical, legal, or moral is not a matter of integrity; that is having common sense.
Keep your eyes open, and pay more attention to the Spiritual Intelligence of your heart instead of pleasing or denying random impulses or desires. Follow Martin Luther's guide in integrity: Love God and do what you want.
The Law of Integrity asks for a genuine expression of our inner reality.
It also recognizes that if envy, greed, and manipulation influence our actions and expressions, the consequences are inevitable, they are built into the mechanics of the universe. By breaking the Spiritual Laws, the act itself is punishment, setting in motion subtle forces the consequences of which we cannot escape more than we can escape the law of gravity.
The natural world is full of such authenticity; the mighty river, the stirring wind, and the noisy crickets are glad to be themselves. Are you completely content with who you are - to be nothing more, nothing less?